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It is with a bit of hesitation that I tackle my first post in the category of Romance and Relationships.\u00a0 I had envisaged this category from the early inception of this blog, as I-think-I-have-a-lot-to-say-and-share… however it is a risky area for a variety of obvious reasons.<\/p>\n

More importantly, how can I portray to know about the topic, given my apparent inability to properly settle?\u00a0 At the end, I reflected on the observation that “good jockeys do not need to have been good horses earlier in their career” and if a mediocre footballer like Bearzot could become the best coach ever in leading Italy to win the 1982 world cup;\u00a0 well maybe I can also share my experience in this fascinating area, if anything else to put to use my experience and the disproportionate amount of time I spent thinking about it.<\/p>\n

The topic\u00a0of Romance and Relationship is obviously fascinating for a plethora of reasons, especially because it touches us in such a personal way, and has produced millennia of artworks, poetry and philosophy.\u00a0 Plus, it is fun to talk about it as each one of us has comparable knowledge and right to contribute.<\/p>\n

Barriers to entry are low: a social conversation on solving differential equations in the Riemann’s space is likely to have few contributors (unless taking place somewhere at MIT) but a chat about love?\u00a0 Everyone is welcome!<\/p>\n

Like for many other subjects, I find frameworks a particularly interesting way to talk about a topic, especially for something as complex, esoteric and multifaceted as the topic of love.\u00a0 And one of the best frameworks I have found to interpret the nature of a love relationship is the one called the Five Love Languages<\/a>, developed by Gary Chapman.<\/p>\n

Dr Chapman maintains that once our love is triggered (either through a mysterious process or as explained by a framework outside the scope of this mini-essay), the key issue becomes one of maintaining our love for our partner alive.\u00a0 To achieve this, we need to understand and speak the “love language” of our partner, otherwise our efforts run the risk of being vain.<\/p>\n

The five love languages are:<\/p>\n